Welcome.

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If you are seeking help for the most important relationships in your life, you're in the right place.

 

I specialize in helping men and women seeking love, career and life balance for the most important relationships of their lives.

 

Too often, our most intimate and important relationships are affected by the demands we encounter at work.  

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When this happens, too often our intimacy falters. We feel isolated and loneliness increases.

 

We find ourselves wondering where the closeness went.

 

Discouragement, disenchantment and disillusionment grows. 

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We may find ourselves caught in a negative cycle, lashing out, shutting down, or checking-out. At home, we hurt those we love. At work, we alienate our team.

 

We promise that we'll do better next time, only to do the same thing again. We want to do our best, but find ourselves on a treadmill, fighting overwhelm. 

 

We may attempt to cope through choices we later regret. We find the short-term relief doesn't bring the needed long-term solution but only more pain and frustration.

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For some, it may be too much food. For others, it's too much bourbon. Or it may be things like too much gaming, too much gambling, using porn to escape into erotic fantasy, or an affair.

 

Some try to put off their pain by being a super-star at work. Or perhaps being a community hero.

 

Yet, despite our best efforts, w​e find ourselves privately, secretly hurting in our most important relationships. 

 

When this kind of distress goes on long enough, it exacts a painful toll on our lives. It shows up in our mood, our energy levels, our creativity, our sleep, our sex lives, and our general health. 

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If any of this sounds like you, or someone you love, I invite you to call me at 425-247-1880 or email me.

 

I specialize in helping men, women and couples replace the negative traps that lead to relationship stress, and instead create more love, greater resilience, and greater hope and personal meaning in their lives.

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With more than 25 years of specialized experience, I have dedicated my life to discretely helping others in their most important relationships.

 

If you're not sure whether what I offer is what you need, call me. I'd be happy to learn about your unique circumstances, and explore how I might be able to help.

 

One more thing. Unlike many therapists, I'm not constrained by insurance-directed, cookie-cutter work that serves insurance profit margins over your well-being. The bottom line is you.

 

 Let's talk.

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