affair recovery

 

Perhaps you stumbled upon a suspicious receipt. Or there were mysterious phone calls and absences. 

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Maybe your partner disclosed the affair to you. Perhaps you found them together. You are reeling between shock, sadness, anger and confusion.

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It might be you are the one who had the affair, and are struggling to cope with its consequences. You lay awake at night, wrestling with the hurt to your partner, your family, and your friends.

 

You might be feeling numb. You can't focus. Work is suffering. Maybe you are fighting feeling suicidal. 

 

If you are like most, you wonder how things got to where they are today.  The numbing confusion of an affair is the last thing that you ever thought would happen to you.

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The hard truth is that as many as 1 out of every 4 people you meet will experience the desperate pain of an affair.

 

Many try to silently soldier through the pain they are in. Too ashamed or embarrassed to talk, they are muzzled by feelings of guilt or self-blame.

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It doesn't have to be this way. Whether you are the one betrayed, or the betrayer, it can be better. 

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You can heal. You can grow. 

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Contrary to popular belief, an affair doesn't necessarily have to mean the end. Learning from it can provide passage to something better between you.

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When an affair happens, it is signaling us that something, somehow, has been broken.

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Whether you are still a couple, or are now on your own, therapy can help you heal and move beyond. 

 

I'm here to help, and my approach is gentle and without judgment. Call me at 425-247-1880 or email me for a 15-minute free consultation.

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